At the onset of a breakup, the idea of being free to do as you please and date other women holds some very pleasureable thoughts. Then, as  you get the reality check and realize that you don’t know how to get started with the process, it can be a daunting feeling.

When you are going through the process of a divorce or the breakup after a long term relationship, you might not have an understanding of the journey you are about to undertake. Yes, being single again becomes somewhat of a journey to the next part of your life.

Since many people are going through this without any guidance or ideas on what to do next, they will not have the tools you can find here on Successfuldatingpro.com to make this transitionary time an easier, less stressful and a more enlightening experience!

Before you even start dating, take a good look at yourself. I mean that in both a literal and non literal sense. Get in front of a full length mirror. Ask yourself this question: Would you date YOU? I honestly doubt that many of you would say ” yes” !

After that good look in the mirror,  you must decide what it is about you that is great and what needs working on. Be careful, we all tend to be our own worst critics and you want to avoid over criticism of yourself.  There are undoubtedly traits that women will find rather appealing.

If it is your clothing style, take a trip to Target, Ross or Steinmart and select a few pairs of pants and shirts to start. They don’t have to be the most expensive clothes, but should be somewhat stylish.  Check with a female that you know to advise you.

The next thing that might need a bit of a change is your hair. When you were married, you might not have paid much attention to how it looked. Go to a good barber or stylist and have a good haircut. Women notice hair!

Also, just some friendly advice that some men don’t get. Check out your shoes before you walk out the door to meet your date. We do not really like to see men in sandals except at the beach.  Men’s feet are not highly regarded by us women and are certainly not your most attractive feature. So, leave you sandals in the closet and wear a nice pair of casual shoes if it fits the occasion. Make sure they are not a 10 year old pair with scuff marks or your tennis shoes that you play softball in!

These few pointers will  provide you with a few advantages when trying to meet women. Dating after a breakup can be like rocket science if you don’ t have the tools to get you through it!

Stay with us at Successfudatingpro.com to get the latest tips on dating and meeting women! Stay tuned to Part 2 of Dating after a breakup!

Men are constantly asking this question when trying to decipher the Secret Society knows as the Female Species. If they would just listen to us females, it would be so incredibly simple! All those Ebooks would not be necessary and there would suddenly be a surge in unemployed Ebook writers looking for the next sensational topic!

First, putting aside the complex emotional makeup that we women inherit at birth, we are not that difficult to understand or please. We are looking for much of what you men are but will adapt much easier to a relationship and change than you do!

Women are interested in appearances. Meaning, yes, it is great if you are a hottie, but not so much that as if you dress well and are clean.  On your first date, don’t show up at a restaurant wearing sandals nor flip flops.  Shave your face, press your shirt and wear shoes. Women do size you up from head to toe!

Sense of humor is probably one of the most important traits that women find appealing. We find a guy that can not only make us laugh but also at himself extremely sexy! If you are on any online dating site, you will see that a large percentage of women are looking for a guy that will make them laugh!

Women are also looking for stability. We like to know that our partner has a stable job, is there with us for the long run and is not going to fade away after a few months.

Guys don’t always communicate to us there level of interest and we do not read minds. Let us know if you like us. We really do like hearing how you feel. Knowing a guy is a communicator helps us to feel more secure.

A guy that is attentive to our needs and really hears us are two of the most crucial things for him to know. We love to hear how nice we look or get a cute little text telling us how sexy we are.  Regular small gestures like that will keep most of us happy.

So, if you are still confused or  having difficulties peeling away the layers of  confusion concerning your partner or past partners, stay with Successfuldatingpro.com and we will strive to provide the answers about “What are Women Looking For” !

When meeting a lady for the first time, there is often a dilema concerning whether it is in your best interest to pay for the date. The majority opinion is in favor of a guy always paying for the first date!

Chivalry is not dead, contrary to what you may think. Women sitll appreciate it! If you want to impress a woman, don’t let her pull out her wallet. She will probably not forget it, even though she extended the offer if you allow her to contribute!

Women like to feel that they are being respected. A guy holding the door open and paying for the date makes her feel that you are a true gentleman, even if just a perception. She will go home and tell all her friends how wonderful you seemed!

Dating can be expensive for men. So, a first meet does not have to mean dinner at Seasons 52. Plan a meet at a cafe or wine bar! They are both generally relaxing and fun places to make an introduction.

If you are short on cash, have just one glass of wine. However, you should ask your date if she would like another glass when she has finished. Order a glass of water with your wine and you can sip on that as well!

After you meet and scope out the visuals and see if she passes the chemistry test, you can decide if you want to move forward with a second date.