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What are Women Looking For?
Men are constantly asking this question when trying to decipher the Secret Society knows as the Female Species. If they would just listen to us females, it would be so incredibly simple! All those Ebooks would not be necessary and there would suddenly be a surge in unemployed Ebook writers looking for the next sensational topic!
First, putting aside the complex emotional makeup that we women inherit at birth, we are not that difficult to understand or please. We are looking for much of what you men are but will adapt much easier to a relationship and change than you do!
Women are interested in appearances. Meaning, yes, it is great if you are a hottie, but not so much that as if you dress well and are clean. On your first date, don’t show up at a restaurant wearing sandals nor flip flops. Shave your face, press your shirt and wear shoes. Women do size you up from head to toe!
Sense of humor is probably one of the most important traits that women find appealing. We find a guy that can not only make us laugh but also at himself extremely sexy! If you are on any online dating site, you will see that a large percentage of women are looking for a guy that will make them laugh!
Women are also looking for stability. We like to know that our partner has a stable job, is there with us for the long run and is not going to fade away after a few months.
Guys don’t always communicate to us there level of interest and we do not read minds. Let us know if you like us. We really do like hearing how you feel. Knowing a guy is a communicator helps us to feel more secure.
A guy that is attentive to our needs and really hears us are two of the most crucial things for him to know. We love to hear how nice we look or get a cute little text telling us how sexy we are. Regular small gestures like that will keep most of us happy.
So, if you are still confused or having difficulties peeling away the layers of confusion concerning your partner or past partners, stay with Successfuldatingpro.com and we will strive to provide the answers about “What are Women Looking For” !
4 Responses to “What are Women Looking For?”
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Although I think you make a few good points, I must say I disagree with what you said about ”Let us know if you like us.”
From my experience, letting a girl know you like her will result in awkwardness a lot of times. It’s better to make sure she likes you.
I also disagree that a guy should be a woman’s therapist. That’s not what women want in a man, that’s when they want help or a life-long partner.
That’s not the guy she’s going to have sex with. If you disagree, read some of my articles and drop me a comment.
Interested to hear your response.
- Niels
Thanks so much Niels for your comment. I love hearing from a man’s perspective and feel that you make a great point but I don’t necessarily agree. There again, it is a different perspective.
What I meant about letting a girl know you like her is not frothing at the mouth over her. It is the considerate gestures such as a short sweet or flirtcous text. A daily call to say hi. That is what I mean.
After a few months, there should be some communication about where the relationship is going. Let her know if you like her enough to be exclusive. The thing women hate the most is the insecurity of not knowing. Believe me when I tell you that!
I never said anything about being a woman’s therapist. Not sure where that came from.
Look forward to your thoughts!
Some of the biggest challenges in relationships come from the fact that most people enter a relationship in order to get something: they’re trying to find someone who’s going to make them feel good. In reality, the only way a relationship will last is if you see your relationship as a place that you go to give, and not a place that you go to take.
You are absolutely right about this Cameron and I found that to be very prominent in my own dating experiences. I was the giver! It would be nice to see more people realize that you have to have a mutually beneficial relationship.