What to do when a guy looks your way in a bar?

There are various ways to meet single guys other than just through online dating. One of them is in a bar setting. It is not necessarily a  “pick up” place. There are many men that go there because they don’t have another way to meet women or are just there for a drink with the guys.

If you suddenly catch his attention and you find him attractive, don’t stare him down or look the other way. If you stare at him, you take the chance of intimidating him.  Looking the other way and not giving him any signals that you are interested will pretty much diminish any chances of his approaching you even if you are the hottest gal in the bar.

So, what do you do when a guy looks your way in a bar? The best way to get him to approach you would be for you to look at him and smile. Then,  just act naturally and see what transpires. Yes, I know, easier said than done. That is why I am here and you are at the bar biting off your acrylics!

Seriously, guys need a signal to advance ahead unless they are just so bold that they don’t consider your intentions. I am sure that you have experienced that type already.  Fortuantely for us, most guys will not be that forceful and will respect your space.

Bars that are in established restaurants can be a wonderful way to meet a more quality type of guy.  He might just be having a coctail before dinner. Also, a lot of guys that are on business will sit at a bar to have dinner rather than utilizing a table.

Many times, a guy will send over a drink for you as an introduction. Don’t feel offended. If you don’t feel comfortable with this approach, you can either refuse it politely or reciprocate. Some women get mad and defensive when they get a drink from a guy and feel he has bad intentions.

Going to bars as a way to meet guys is simply one way to accomplish this. It is better to mix it up a bit and give yourself a variety of methods that will increase your odds.  Stay with it, you will eventually meet  that special someone!